Embracing Confidence: My Boudoir Experience with Atlantic Boudoir

Turning 40 was a milestone I wanted to celebrate in a meaningful way. It wasn’t just about marking another year—it was about embracing who I am, feeling confident in my own skin, and stepping fully into my power. That’s why I decided to do a boudoir session with Atlantic Boudoir, and it turned out to be one of the most empowering experiences of my life.

Love how Alicia couldn't get enough of my eyes and captured them so well.

From the moment I walked into the studio, I felt at ease. The experience was luxurious and completely tailored to making me feel my best. It started with professional hair and makeup, transforming me into a version of myself that felt both glamorous and natural. Every detail was handled with care, ensuring I felt relaxed and confident before stepping in front of the camera.

The shoot itself was incredible. My photographer made me feel not just comfortable but beautiful—in a way that wasn’t about perfection but about authenticity. She guided me through every pose, capturing moments that reflected strength, sensuality, and self-love.

Afterward, she treated me to delicious lunch and a relaxing massage, completing what felt like the ultimate self-care day. It was the perfect birthday gift to myself, a reminder that I deserve to be celebrated.

Seeing the final images was an emotional moment. I wasn’t just looking at pictures—I was looking at a version of myself that was bold, fearless, and radiant. It was a reminder that beauty isn’t about youth or fitting into society’s standards—it’s about confidence, experience, and the way we carry ourselves.

Doing this shoot at 40 was such an important decision, and honestly, I can’t wait to do it again when I hit 45 in a few years. Because every stage of life deserves to be celebrated, and every version of me is worthy of feeling empowered, strong, and stunning.

To think so much has changed since these pictures were taken. Hair color, more weight loss, personal life changes, doing things I was afraid to do (but love) and even strength building (can't believe I have little abs peaking through). I can't wait to see what the future holds and the opportunity to catch myself in the moment of evolving like I did here. Confidence has never felt and looked so good.